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How to Find Great Ideas for Blog Posts

My clients are always asking me what to blog about. It seems that finding ideas for blog posts stumps way to many people. It shouldn’t.

I don’t care what segment of the industry you are in, as a wedding professional you talk to brides everyday. Whether it’s in person, on email or a comment on social media, you connect with your target market everyday. More importantly, you answer their questions. Right? How to write a good blog post

That is your gold mine for great blog post ideas. Those questions, that you can usually answer without even having to think, are a road map to your editorial content. If brides are curious enough to ask the question, they are engaged enough to take the time to read about it. I’ll bet you could fill a months worth of posts off the top of your head by just asking yourself what the most asked questions are.

If you want to mine it further, start writing down the question brides ask in your meetings. If you are meeting with a bride, chances are good that you are already taking notes, just add this to your normal note taking. Make it a point to gather at least one question from every bride you talk with.

If you keep getting asked the same questions over and over, try to find out why. I’ll bet five brides will give you five different answers to why they asked it.

Now obviously I’m not talking about the very common “How much?” If that is the only question you are hearing, you are not listening.

In addition to brides, you also work with a lot of other vendors. Flip the coin: What questions do you ask them? If you had the need to know, your readers may also want to know. I’m not saying give away company secrets or that secret source for that fantastic new ‘thing’, but sharing knowledge and a few insider tips isn’t a bad thing.

I have found that questions usually come in two varieties: quality, information seeking questions and bat shit crazy. Don’t discount bat shit crazy. Something made them ask it. Find out why. Worse comes to worse, make one of those quirky little  Xtranormal videos out of it. (here are some funny ones from the past)

It has been my experience that people tend to over think blog posts. Stop thinking of it as writing the great American novel. Just talk to your readers like you would to your friends.

 

 

 

Brides Need A Reality Check

On my continuing rant of “Where do they come up with this shit” I had some very interesting conversations this week.

I was talking to a planner that is trying to, umm, fix the budget a bride prepared for her. Some of the little things the bride got WRONG:

Budget for invitations: $0.47 each. Can you even get a postcard and mail it for that?

Total budget for bouquets for herself and 8 attendants: $200. No, not one bouquet, all of them. Oh ya, she did toss in an extra $50 for the 9 bouts.

Moving on. I spoke with a florist that was dealing with a bride that found the perfect rose in the perfect color online. Problem is, the rose was on a site for hybrid tea roses, the kind you grow in your garden and they only came as bare root plants. The wedding is 2 weeks out. Um, that’s not happening!

Same florist different bride. Bride wants anemones for her wedding in November. Florist double checked with growers. Anemones start hitting the market in late December and hit their peak from January to April. Bride said,”NO, we Googled it and they come into season in October.” Maybe Google knows something the growers don’t.

Then I found this little video from Planet Money. The author obviously forgot little things like shipping and overhead for the shop selling it and maybe even a bit of profit. I’ll bet she is also the first one to scream”SWEATSHOP” at the first mention of Chinese manufacturing.


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One of your jobs as professionals is to educate your brides. That isn’t the easiest thing to do. There is a show on HGTV that I am addicted to called Property Brothers. They have figured out a way to educate their clients; it’s called shock therapy! They show them the house of their dreams and give them just enough time to fall in love with it. Then they hit them with the asking price which usually runs about double their budget.

Reality Check!

Once the shock wears off, the client is ready to tackle some less than perfect homes and some serious renovations to get what they want.

You may want to consider this with your clients. That is if you have the chops to pull it off.
A very wise friend once told me,

“It’s easy to pull off a gorgeous wedding when you have a $60,000 budget. It’s the real pros that can do it for $15,000.”

 

Please, oh please leave your examples of brides in need of a reality check. I could use the chuckle.
Besides, it would be good for us all to know we aren’t the only ones hearing this shit!!

Things That Should Never be Seen at a Wedding

Hi Gang! Time for a little levity as you dive into the first weekend of May. If you see any of these at your weddings…run!!! Oh and snap a pic for me. hehehehe

 

All images courtsey of Poorly Dresses: Seriously Questionable Style Moments

The Humor in The Wedding Industry

How about we start this wedding weekend with a bit of humor. If you aren’t familiar with these videos done on xtranormal you have been missing a rising trend.

What makes these so funny is that we have all been there done that. As with all good humor there is a kernal of truth in them.

BE WARNED: Some of the language is not for the faint of heart. Obviously there are some pretty frustrated wedding professionals out there that need to let off some steam. Better here than to the real client. Come on, you know you have wanted to say some of this stuff out loud.

Pass these along to your fellow wedding pros. We might all be able to laugh through this weekend.

If you decide to go make your own, please send me the link or put it in the comments. Please, with a cherry on top???

Wedding Humor. Have a Laugh on Me

This Month I thought we could all use a bit of humor. So instead of a paniced scream how about a belly laugh.

I have found these on various placed on the net. The funniest of the lot I am sorry I was unable to embed so you will have to click the link. Believe me it is well worth the effort. You might even consider it in the horror category. wink

Bride mental ward video

Prank war proposal

Wedding Flowers

Wedding cake

AND the funniest
What Not to Wear.
(yes, you have to click the link)
http://link.brightcove.com/services/link/bcpid1137571101/bctid1137569097