New Ideas for Bridal Show Email Follow-up

OK, you’ve invested your time and treasure in a bridal show, or several and you have a fat, juicy lead list. Now what?

I have already given you tons of ideas to use both short-term and long-term like cherry picking your lead list and outrageous marketing. The question people still are asking is what  to put in that first email?

An interesting answer popped into my inbox just this morning that I think you should give a try.

How about instead of telling them something you ask them something?

Check this quote from today’s Research Brief from The Center for Media Research.

A new survey from Cint shows that 62% of those surveyed said they were more likely to purchase a brand’s product if their opinion has been sought by brand in a study. The survey highlights the importance of customer insight, says the report, as over half of the 1,200 consumers polled felt more loyal to a brand if it takes the time to find out their opinion.

Personally I can’t think of a better way to get them engaged from the very beginning. You know me, here is an example. If it were me sending the email for Indulgence Custom Bakeshop I would have said something along the lines of:

“Hey there {add first name}, it was great to meet you at the XYZ Bridal Show.  I was wondering if I could get your input on something. It’s a new year and I really want to add some new and exciting flavors to the menu.  If you could have any flavor or combination of flavors for your wedding cake or dessert what would it be?”

Better yet, put in a very brief survey or poll.

Don’t be crass and ask what their budget is. Ask them something that they may just have an interesting opinion on and ask it like you mean it. Give them some reason to believe that their input matters. Tweet the answers like a horse race. Build some excitement. Keep a tally going on Facebook. Foster engagement.

Here is one more tip that you probably already know but needs to be reinforced.

That email needs to be finished and uploaded to your bulk mailer BEFORE  you set up your booth. As soon as the show is over you need to load the emails you collected in your booth and hit the send button. That night. I know you are tired; shows can be brutal. Not taking care of the follow through is the biggest mistake that bridal vendors make when using bridal shows to market.

 

Bonus.

Here is another great article I just found on Asking as Marketing.

Email Marketing: Your Welcome Letter

It seems that my fair readers are finally convinced and jumping on the email marketing bandwagon. Groovey! I have set up more email lead generators lately than I can count,  so how about a little in depth on some of the finer points.

From today’s email bag-o-tips…

Your Welcome Letter

So many times we are just in a rush to get things going when we set up our email marketing systems that we just use the default welcome letter or don’t use one at all. I know this was true of me. My welcome letter is old, tired and boring, but I plan to change that. It have been in place since 2005, high time for an overhaul.

If you don’t think the welcome letter is important, check this statistic:

According to a recent Epsilon survey of 200 retailers, fewer than 2/3 of retailers do not send a welcome message at all, even though the welcome messages tracked had an average open rate of 50-60%.

That is a lot of juice to ignore! Not sending a welcome letter is a lot like ignoring a customer when they walk in your store.

What should a good welcome letter say? Well, think of the interaction that you have when you first walk into one of your favorite shops. You are greeted warmly and offered assistance. If you are new to the store, they offer to show you around a bit and give you the need to know. Then a great sales person will back off and let you experience the shop with out hovering.

Well your welcome letter should do the same thing.

  • Thank your new subscriber for joining your list.
  • Give them a quick rundown of what they can expect.
  • Tell them a bit about any hidden treasures on your website or store.
  • Lead them with links to the good stuff and then back off and let them browse.

That’s it. Oh, make sure that you welcome message carries your branding and that sort of thing. Your welcome email should only begin the process by engaginging them with your brand. Save you sales push and coupons for later broadcast emails.

 

E-mail Marketing Refresher

Now that the bridal shows are upon us and you have gathered a nice little lead list, I think it is time for an email refresher course.

Um, you did gather your own leads at the bridal shows, right? I thought so.

  1. For all those new visitors to your website, let’s capture those leads too. Make signing up to your email lead list easy, have a lead generator on every page of your website and only ask for 2 things, name and email address. People are more like like to sign up the less information you require. (Your lead generator is different from your contact form. You can require more info on the contact form.)

  2. Use a good emails service, don’t try to do email marketing through your own email program. You will end up blacklisted. Instead use a qualified third party emailer. I am a big fan of A Weber and have been using it for years. The price is right and the service is easy to use. Yes, I’m an affiliate but only because I am also a fan.

  3. Use good, non-spammy subject lines. Your subject line may be the only thing people read to determine if they want to open your email. You should split test to see what kinds of headlines get the best response from your subscribers.

  4. Make your emails informative. Don’t just send out notices of sales and coupons. Give your readers a reason to open your email even if they don’t have a dime to spend today. The goal is to get your business top of mind when they do have money to spend. A good rule of thumb is 80% information and 20%pitch. If you look at my emails blasts, they are almost entirely information about what is new on the websites, but I include a link to my ebook and other services over in a sidebar.

  5. Resend your email blast to the people that didn’t open it the first time around. Wait 24-48 hours ansend to ONLY the people that didn’t open it the first time. You will be suprised at how many more opens your get.

  6. Track everything. I shouldn’t have to say it, but what is the point of putting in the effort if you aren’t going to keep track of what is working. It is even a good idea to divide your lists up. Have one that comes from a bridal show, one that is generated by your website and one that comes from any leads your get off websites you advertise on. They you will even know which places are working for you.

Email does still work, if you use it right. With so much marketing today being pull marketing, it help to add a little bit of push to the mix.

Why Your Mail Lands in My Spam Folder

Every few days I do the right thing and check my spam folder. It never ceases to amaze me how many people that are signing up for my newsletter end up there.

You see, when you sign up I get a notification from my bulk email service that a new lead has been added to my list. Well it comes in with your email address as the sender and about half of those get flagged as spam. The fact that it happens isn’t important, you still get added to the list. What is important is WHY you ended up there in the first place and what it may mean to your business.

Here is why it happens. Somewhere along the line your ip address has been blacklisted as a spammer. Yep, that’s right, you, the humble bridal vendor. If you are blacklisted there is a heck of a lot of your emails besides just this one that isn’t getting through.The don’t always bounce back, they just don’t get through.

I’ll bet, that you have been using your regular email account to send out mass mailings. Yep, just cut and pasted 25 or so at a time from some bridal lead list into the address bar and let it fly. Well that’s not how you do it. You have to use a qualified opt-in email service. All it takes is just one or two of those recipients to mark you as spam and you are one your way to being blacklisted.

Think you may have this happening with your email?

To see if your email is blocked go to MxToolbox and type in the domain name that your email comes from. In my case it is thinklikeabride.com.

If you find out your email is blocked you can contact the black lists directly to request removal. Some will, some will charge you a fee and some won’t even respond to you.

Another reason that you might be hitting peoples spam folder is becaue your email address is info@yourdomain.com.

Using info@ instead of your name is a big red flag to spam filters. Take the time to set up a second email address with a name in it.

If you are going to be sending out email marketing, get a qualified opt-in account. Come on, Mail Chimp is free for limited mailings. If you are really going to use email marketing to grow your wedding business, I recommend using a better service. I am an affiliate of AWeber (there is a link to the right in the sidebar) but that is because I really like the service and their tech support is top notch. Nope, its not free but it is reasonable. I’ve been with them for over 5 years.

One of the other reasons that you should be using a good email marketing system is because the good ones aren’t going to let their clients spam. Huh?

First off, they will require a doudle opt-in on all leads.

Second, the good ones will have a tool to run your email through that will tell you if it is setting off any spam red flags. This is important to you because you can adjust your email while still in the preview stage to avoid those red flags.

Third, they are going to protect their reputation. If a client is consistantly sending emails that rank high on the spam meter, are getting a lot of complaints or are caught using questionable lead lists they will throw them out. Boom! No refund, no “We are sorry” no second chance. That makes your email coming from that service look safer to the blacklists than one that comes from a service that plays fast and loose. Better reputation=more deliverability.

Feel free to look up my domain. I do email marketing every month to over 1000 addresses and have been for years. As you will see, my record is pretty spotless.

The moral is, do it the right way from the start and you don’t have to worry about  it.

How to Get Your Emails Read

If you do it well email marketing is is a cost effective and highly trackable marketing tool. I’ve been doing it for myself and my clients for years now. I average about a 60% open rate. My last one had an open rate of 88%. No not all of them are paid subscribers, in fact most of them are not. Your open rates can be that high if you put a little effort into it.

Here are some basic on how to get you emails opened and read.

The first thing is to make sure you are gathering and managing your leads in a way that is compliant with best practices. Use only leads you have collected yourself either in person or through your website.

Define the goal of your emails. It should be to forge a relationship with potential customers, not beat them over the head with a sales pitch in every email. Remember, email marketing is long term.

Subject line:

Avoid spammy words like Free or Your Won. A good email program will give you tools to check this before you send. Test it on your Gmail account. Gmail has a very pretty good spam filter. If your email doesn’t get through, something is wrong.

Personalize. Again, a good email platform gives you the tools to do this. I recommend that you have your lead generator set up to gather first and last names seperately so you can automate them to be personalized by first name only.

Body:

Talk directly to an individual. Rather than talking to a group make it feel as if you are talking directly to the reader. Again, personalization can help here.

Keep you emails short and succinct. Keep them simple in language using a conversational tone.

Keep them beautiful. Avoid a solid block of text. Use sub heads and breaks to increase readability. Avoid over use of exclamation points and ALL CAPS.

Add images if the make sense to the email.

State your desired call to action and make the follow thru easy by using links and buttons.

Send it at the right time.

Avoid late Friday and the weekend. It will get lost in the Monday morning avalanche of email.

Tuesdays and Wednesdays are great days to choose. Send morning through mid afternoon.

Frequency

Don’t overdo it. Unless you are writing something that needs daily attention like top news headlines or horoscopes no more than once a week is best. Most businesses can do once every 2 to 4 weeks, but bridal vendors have a much shorter window of opportunity.

Keep your readers.

If you have been reading Think lately than you are working on the reinvention and you may well have hit upon a plan to keep your customers for life. If so, shift them off of the bridal list to a more permanent one after their wedding date. Ask permission in an unsubscribe follow up email.You can alos put a note in your footer that will remind them that they can unsubscribe from your bridal list once their wedding is planned but keep receiving email about your other services.

If you have done a good job of engaginging you leads while brides, they will glady keep subscribing. this gives you more opportunities to convert from leads to customers.

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Email and Lead Lists

Since the topic of the day seems to be lead lists and email I thought I would gather together some of my best posts on the subject.

Happy reading. Oh and don’t forget, the people that are telling you how many names are on their lead list are trying to sell you something.  Just sayin’

The Truth About Lead Lists

Bridal Spam. Get Out of My Inbox!!

Why You Should Cherry Pick Your Lead List

We all know about lead lists. I’ll bet most of you do one of 3 things: Ignore it, Email blast it or send out a single post card. Suppose you did something outrageous instead?

It’s tough/expensive to do much more than the three things I just mentioned with a lead list of 500 to 2000. With direct mail, you have to put together a piece that will get noticed. How many postcards do you think brides get right after a bridal show?  What is going to make yours stand out enough to even get noticed? Add to this, it is proven that you need multiple mailings of standard direct mail before you have any chance of the lead acting on it. So now it isn’t just about sending out 500 to 2000 post cards; it is about multiplying that by at least 5 to get the response you need.  Now that is starting to get expensive.

Blast email can work with a couple of caveats. For one, you have to have permission to send them. Any reputable bulk mailer will require that you have gathered the leads yourself. That means that the list that you get from the shows or from bridal mags you advertise in are usually prohibited. What’s more, even if you found a way around the system, about half of those email addresses are bogus or are just junk mail dumping accounts. The second caveat is to get around the spam filters you really have to know what you are doing when you craft your email. That is particularly true in crafting your headline.  If you start getting caught by the spam filters you may well find your email address or isp blocked altogether.

Of course at least these two options have a bit more of a chance than doing nothing. Unfortunately, that is what most people do with the lead lists.

Now suppose you really analyzed those lists ,compared a few different lists, pared them down to only the really juicy prospects, and separated them by wedding date? You may end up with maybe 3 leads some months, maybe 7 to 10 for others. Now that is a doable number. You could pull out all the stops to get their attention then, couldn’t you?

So now what? That is where your unique creativity comes in to the equation. How outrageous do you want to get and how much are you willing to spend to get a great client?  I read something recently about a house cleaning service that would cherry pick their leads and send the ripe ones a DVD player with a DVD full of testimonials of happy clients shot in their clean homes. Now that is pretty dang outrageous, but if you get one out of 3 and stand to make a good bit of money on their weekly service, it was worth it. They did this once a month and grew their business by at least one or two new clients a month.

Now I am not saying you need to send brides DVD players but there are other outrageous things you could do. I spoke with a florist recently about sending out a small floral arrangement to 3 leads a week. She would just order a bit of extra flowers and deliver them herself. I can guarantee that she will be on that bride’s radar so much more that an email or postcard would have done. If you are a baker, how tough would it be to send out a few boxes of cupcakes a week?  Hey DJ’s, how about a CD of the 15 Best First Dance Songs?  Caterers, could you invite 4 couples to a tasting a month? Remember, you are only hitting the very best prospects, those prospects that your close ratio should be high on if you can get their attention.

I know a bridal salon that does appointment only champagne shopping on Sundays. There are signs posted and she tells the brides that come about it. How much more effective would it be if rather than waiting for brides that already had been in her shop to book an appointment she started sending out selective invitations to good prospects off of her lead lists. Maybe do a private fashion show once a week for a select number of girls.

Yes, all of this costs money; all marketing does. This kind of marketing is done on a small scale and is highly trackable. It is also so outside the box that you are bound to get noticed. Or you can keep doing what you have been doing and hope it works.

Is Email Eating Your Life?

In the early days of this website one of the things I used to go on about was email; how if you weren’t using it with today’s brides you were way behind the times. With the state of our inboxes today I almost wish I would have kept my mouth shut.

While it is true that email is still the primary form of communication with today’s brides some of them have gotten completely out of hand. The other side of that coin is that we have let them do it. A few weeks ago I sat next to a wedding planner at a board meeting and she spent the entire meeting replying to email on her blackberry. I know another planner that is notorious for sending email on her Treo while she’s driving. I won’t ride with her anymore. It is not unheard of for people to have 400 emails a day. Now I’ll grant you that 1/2 of them are things that don’t require a response like newsletters, humor or those “keep it going” chain letters but how do you sort through that large of a tangle to get to the stuff you need. For people like me that spend my day on a keyboard the constant ping telling me I have new mail can get deafening. Then comes the angry post on the forum that so and so doesn’t answer his/her email. Every little question a bride has is of earth shattering importance to her and if you don’t respond in a timely fashion –read nanosecond- she thinks you are dropping the ball.  What the heck are you supposed to do?

There is a growing movement to shut it down. More and more people are taking the step of putting an auto responder on their primary email accounts saying something along the following lines:

“I appreciate your email but I have made the decision to only check my mail at the following times: 7:00 AM and in the late evening. If this is an issue that needs a more immediate response please reach me on my cell phone.”

This way they know why they haven’t heard back from you. It also lets you pick up all seven or eight of those silly little questions some brides have and bundle the answer into on email response, saving you a bundle of time.

Another tactic that some are employing is if an email conversation runs into three or more exchanges they pick up the phone, settle it all out in one conversation and be done with it. Great idea.

Personally what I have done is set up multiple email accounts, gmail, Outlook and thunderbird. I have different addys running through each one. Depending on my work load that day I can keep one or all of them open. I also use IM for quick discussions and if I have an ongoing conversation there I can easily switch it to my cell. I have also shut down all my newsletters, if they have an RSS feed I can catch it on my blog reader when I have time with out it cluttering my inbox.  Just to give you an idea there are 700 unopened email in my inbox right now. If any of them were that important they would have called, don’t you think?

Bridal Show Success

Don’t even think about

doing a bridal show until you read this book!

$14.95

I know you have heard what I have had to say about bridal shows. How they are a crap shoot at best, how there are way too many, how they aren’t the sure bet they used to be. Well all that is true!

Unless you know the secrets

Bridal shows can still be a tremendous way to market your business if you pick the right one and use every tool in your arsenal to get it right.Here are the tips and trick you have been searching for, all in one easy to follow guide.

Nothing vague here, just good solid information to take you every step of the way from choosing the show to closing the sale.

I tackle everything from what makes a show worth doing (and how you can get even more publicity before the show) to why your old email campaigns just didn’t work.

One of the questions I see popping up all the time is “How should I design my booth”. This book has the answers from how to lay it out to what you absolutely have to include to be successful.

Want to know how to squeeze every last marketing opportunity out of your costly investment? Of, course that’s covered. I’ll tell what extras and freebies you can get before you sign on the dotted line to do the show.

Let’s face it, bridal shows are an expensive way to market your business. It’s not just the cost of the booth, but what you put in it and your time and that of your staff. Don’t you deserve to get the best return on that investment you possibly can. Yes you do!

I will share with you my personal secrets for bridal show success. Secrets I have learned in years of doing these things as a successful wedding vendor down in the trenches, right where you are.

When you consider the investment you make in a bridal show, whether is is a single booth at a tiny show with 100 brides or a quad booth at one of the mega-shows with over 1500 brides, $14.95 is a drop in the bucket. This book will more than pay for itself before you even do your first show.

How can I say that? Because not only will it keep you from doing the wrong show but my tips on email follow up can translate into a year round campaign. (that alone makes it worth the read)

What are you waiting for? Don’t you want to get the biggest return on your marketing investment that you can? Or would you rather just complain that bridal shows don’t work?

Like I said…

Bridal shows CAN work, but only if you know the secrets!

Go on, click the button. You know you need to.

TaylorMade Weddings>Think Like A Bride

My Bridal Show was a success yesterday. I took your advice – “Go big or go home” (from Bride Attraction Bootcamp) – and made quite the impression. Let’s just say…the fish was a BIG hit! Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge in your book. It pays!

I just wanted to say thanks Christine!! I got your Bridal Show Success online book and it was so helpful as I prepared for my last bridal show.  I felt that I was in a real rut with the way I laid out my booth.  I took your tips and planned the booth and laid it out in the store and snapped a picture of it before we went.  When we got there the set up was so much faster and it looked much neater and had a freshness to it that pleased me.

When I had set it up in the store and snapped some pictures,  printed those up with a bit of information about the store and handed them out to our brides.  My show was just a few days ago so I don’t know what kind of results we’ll get, but I feel really good about my presentation.  Thanks Christine.  You always seem to have the answers to the questions that I don’t even know I should be asking!

Sarah Morris, The Something Blue Shoppe

More on Email

Yesterday I ranted a bit about an email blast I had received. As a result of some conversations that followed on Twitter, I thought it may be a good idea to give you some pointers on how to do it right.

It’s about permission.

  • Build your own lead list. Use a lead generator on your website.
  • Collect your own leads in your booth if you do a bridal show.
  • Don’t use the mass lists that come from bridal shows or media that you advertise with like magazines and websites.*
  • Use a qualified opt-in email service like A Weber.

It’s About Branding.

  • Your emails should match your other branding.
  • Include headers and graphics that look like your website.
  • Include links to your other products/profiles.
  • Unless you are HARO, graphics are good.**

It’s About Frequency and Content.

  • Sending 1 or 2 emails and expecting a response is outdated.
  • You have a brief window to influence a bride. Sending a weekly email blast isn’t far fetched.
  • Give your recipients a reason to read you email. Content is king; you can’t just send a sales pitch.

Track and Test.

  • Follow your stats. Check open rates and click thrus on every email.
  • Split test your list. Send half you list one subject line and the other half a different one to see which gets a better open rate. Likewise, send a different email to each half and see which one gets a better click thru rate.
  • Take the time to preview/test your emails before you hit send. Glaring typos, omissions and broken links make you look bad


Email marketing is but one of the tools in your social media marketing toolkit. The better you are at using it the better your overall marketing results will be.

*When a bride signs up at a bridal show, magazine or website she is giving permission to that entity, not to their vendors. I have argued this point till I am blue in the face with both the major email services and the bridal show producers. Not one of the top notch email services will let you use those lists, regardless of what the list providers tell you.

**HARO, Help A Reporter Out, is a thrice daily listing of writers and editors looking for sources for articles. It can be a great way to get you name in print. If you aren’t a subscriber to this list you should be. Fair warning though, you have to jump on those lead ASAP.