We have been having a discussion over in the Wedding Water Cooler about Costco and their continued push into the wedding market. I find it interesting that so many of our members are in denial. Costco pushing weddings isn’t new. They were doing bridal shows at least 4 years ago. What is new is that they are now more aggressively pursuing the market. They have added wedding gowns and are doing it in a trendy way: pop up sales.
They have been doing this with flowers and cakes for a while now. If you want flowers from Costco you can order them in bulk, but you can’t specify a specific cultivar. So you can order red roses, but not a specific one. You are still going to save a bundle and no one is going to argue with you over your choices. You can order a tiered cake, but you can’t get high style decorating on it. People know what the value proposition is for Costco. They accept that when they walk in the door.
Think about this for a minute…
No one ever went to Home Depot because they needed a drill;
they went to Home Depot because they needed a hole.
I have been reviewing a lot of websites lately that clients want me to update. I am running across the same thing in many of them. Nobody is telling me WHY?
- Why should I buy from you?
- What makes you different and a clear choice?
- Why is your product different?
- What makes you stand out from the other gajillion photographers/planners/florists or DJ’s?
- How do you fill my unique need?
With some clients it is like pulling teeth to get an answer. If you don’t know what sets you apart, how are you ever going to express that it in a way that has brides beating down your door.
You know me, here is an example.
Bridal salons, by an large market using the designers and lines they carry. News flash, brides believe that they can buy the same thing on line and with a lot of lines, they can. Why on earth should they pay you more for what they believe is the same item. So the lines you carry don’t make you unique.
Here is what makes you unique. You have seen hundreds of women in hundreds of gowns. You know who cuts how, you know what designers and style work best on which body types. You know whose shade of ivory works best on what shades of skin and a dozen other things that matter. In short, you are the expert. They can bring you a picture of the gown of their dreams and you can find a similar gown that will be more flattering, easier to alter and in their price range in your damn sleep. That is what you should be marketing.
Look, brides need a gown, but really what they need is a garment that works for them to make them feel and look special on a very special day. They need to walk down that aisle feeling confident that they look the very best that they could. They need your expertise to put them is the gown that is right for them. That is what you should be marketing.
I don’t mean to pick on bridal salons. It is true with most every type of vendor; in and out of the bridal world.
If you want your marketing material to work, you need to know what you are really selling. If whomever is designing your marketing material doesn’t have this information they can’t give you great marketing and without great marketing you can’t hope to survive.


















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