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What is Driving the Vintage Trend in Weddings?

At market you connect with people in all layers of the bridal business from designers to retailer to publishers. Last weekend I kept having a similar conversation over and over again.no more mason jars

When will the vintage trend in weddings be over?

In my mind, this trend should have already died and I said so, but it got me thinking more deeply about what is driving it.

  • First off, I think it is really in their hearts less about vintage than it is about ‘casual’. Vintage is just the name that got hung on it. Couples today are more concerned about having fun and seeing to the comfort of their guests than they are about being aspirational. Many see the more traditional hotel or banquet hall wedding reception as stuffy and constrained. In an effort to reduce stress they are abandoning that look for something they perceive as more casual and laid-back.
  • Second, I think the economy is driving it. Today’s couples are reaching out to alternative venues because they believe, correctly or not, that they are less expensive than a traditional wedding venue. These alternative venues are seen as unique and edgy. The venues, also effected by the economy, are reaching out to the bridal world as a new source of revenue.
  • Third, the vintage trend is seen as a Do-It-Yourselfer’s paradise. They can search flea markets and thrift shops for mismatched vases and mason jars and plop in a single daisy rather than rent beautiful silver vases and bowls from a rental company or a florist for over the top arrangements.
  • Perhaps the most important point, they are at heart copy-cats. Designing a wedding is something they have not done before. They search Pinterest and the wedding blogs not just for ideas but validation. If someone else has done it successfully they feel validated in their choices, even if it was done in a style shoot.
  • Which brings me to my last point. The blogs and style shoots, in an effort to “give the brides what they want” keep styling and showcasing vintage. It is stuck in a loop.

So how do we stop it?

As designers and stylists, you first have to understand what is driving it and then fill those needs. Today’s couples want highly personalized wedding with a casual, easy feel at a cost-effective price point. That doesn’t by default mean “Vintage”. It just means that is all they have been shown.

So put on your thinking caps, find some new inspiration, design your little hearts out and give them some alternatives. In your style shoots, don’t default to either vintage or over the top bling, find a middle ground. Understand their needs and desires and find new ways to execute them.

 

Is Your Primary Marketing Tool Ready for Today’s Bride?

I was reading an article by one of my heroes, Holly Buchanan a true pioneer in marketing to women. Holly posted her predictions for marketing to women for 2013.

Well wonder of wonders! check this quote

I’ve been saying this since 2005, but this trend shows no sign of slowing down. Women will continue to shop, do research and interact online.

Your website, email, social media and mobile strategy should be at the core of all of your marketing efforts. The experience she has with your brand online will be a key factor in how and whether she does business with you on or offline. She is expecting to get the information she needs, when she needs it. Too many brands still fall down on the job with their online customer experience.

I think we all pretty much knew that. Like Holly, I have been saying for years that you have to be marketing to brides online. Now the question becomes, HOW are they accessing the internet?

Here is some information from a Pew Research study:

Almost nine in 10 (87%) use internet or email on their smartphone, while two-thirds (68%) use it to go online on a typical day and one-quarter mostly use their smart phone to go online.

This doesn’t mean they have abandoned their desktop or laptop, they just aren’t chained to it. Thanks to smart phone, they research the internet whenever the thought strikes.

So, we know that the experience a bride has on your website is often key to whether she does business with you and we also know that she will be accessing your website on everything from a large screen monitor to a tiny smart phone in the palm of her hand.

How does your website measure up to this vast potential?

You will also notice from the Buchanan quote, that she is expecting to get the information she need when she needs it. What’s more, she want to be able to find the same content no matter where she looks in a way that is easy to use. The best solution we have today is to build a mobile-responsive website rather than have a variety of sites (Flash, HTML, mobile)responsive website design

Let’s look at one more article. This one is from Josh Byers, writing for one of my favorite sites, copyblogger.com. In it Josh discusses why you should have one website that performs well on any device, from desktop to smart phone.

Mobile users will do anything & everything that desktop users will do provided it’s presented in a usable way. Assuming people on mobile “won’t do that” is a losing proposition

If you’re not designing and developing your entire site with mobile users in mind, it doesn’t really matter if you employ a responsive design, or have a separate mobile site.

Data consistently show that mobile devices, mobile usage, and mobile purchases continue to rise at an enormous rate. This data also suggests that this trend will not slow down in the future, but only pick up speed.

To be successful on the web you must begin your process with a philosophy that puts mobile first.

Mobile responsive design is then the natural outflow of this process.

Simple question~

Is your primary marketing tool ready for today’s bride?

If it isn’t, drop me a line and I can fix it!

Still think mobile responsive isn’t that important? The New York Times doesn’t!

 

Men’s Formal Wear Website

Vittorio’s had a new owner and a new attitude. They needed an ecommerce website to match and we gave it to them. With a clean new look, integration with sales tools, appointment app, event calendar for the Gala and Prom pages and a full on shopping cart, they are ready to take on the world. Click the image to see for yourself.

Website for a Formalwear Shop

Tip for a Successful Blog I Learned from The Wedding Dish

I don’t know if you have been following the changes taking place on my other blog, Wedding Dish, but I thought it was time to share it here.

I started the Dish back in 2006 as a way to speak directly to brides. At the time Think was subscription only mainly because I didn’t want brides to read it but with a name like Think Like A Bride, I knew that they would find it. So I gave them somewhere to go.

Wedding Dish began to take shape as a curation type website long before anything like Pinterest existed. Rather than post entire montages from real weddings and style shoots, I would post single topic articles. Think posts on guest book alternatives, winter wedding decor and cakes. I think you get the idea.

Frankly the dang thing was just rockin’ along and I was passionate about it and having fun.

Then I had some things happen in my life and I just couldn’t face another happy-happy wedding post. Oh, I tried, but I just didn’t have it in me. I posted here and there but without any spirit or dedication. About this same time the web design and consulting part of Think Like A Bride really took off and I didn’t give the Wedding Dish another thought.

Recently, I started seeing a bunch of pins from the Dish come up on Pinterest. So I wondered to myself, ” What the heck is this all about?” Well OMG! That little puppy had been rockin’ along on its own steam, never losing a beat. In fact, the monthly visitors had doubled. WHAT??

Now mind you, this site had laid there unloved and unkempt for nearly 2 years. With all I have learned about website design in that time I took one look at it and declared it ‘butt-ugly’ and a visual embarrassment!Old wedding dish header

Over the course of a weekend I gave it a complete overhaul, new look, new theme, fully mobile responsive.

Wedding Dish

Then I started to really dig into the stats to see what was making this such a successful blog and share those tips with you.

Well, it is everything I have been telling you regarding web design, how brides search, how to create content and how to optimize it all.

Tips for a Successful blog that I learned from the Wedding Dish

  • Start with great structure. I swear by WordPress and Genesis.
  • Know your target market and speak directly to them.
  • Split your site between image heavy posts and keyword rich copy.
  • Optimize your images like your life depended on it.
  • Give your visitors very easy ways to share.

If you thought none of that mattered, then explain to me why I have images that have been pinned over 65,000 times?

this image was pinned over 65k times

Keep watching Wedding Dish. I have once again found that passion and am ready to rock this thing. As you may have seen, I am taking submissions for images, detail shots please. Contact me at weddingdish@thinklikeabride.com or check the Submissions page for the full details

What Should and Should Not Be on Your Website

I was out reading some forums today and I see that the questions of what should and should not be on your website still seems to baffle a lot of wedding professionals.computer_search

 

Let’s see if I can say it in a different way by taking a look at your own behavior.

Here is the scenario: You are planning a nice dinner at a restaurant for one of your gal pal’s birthdays. You want to pick somewhere different that you and the gang haven’t been to before. Got it?

The first thing you do is solicit ideas from the gang. (personal referrals)

Now you have a handful of ideas for restaurants you are not familiar with so you hit Google to do two things: find the websites for those restaurants and see what else comes up in the search. (online search)

Then you visit the sites. What are the main things you are looking for? It is something specific, isn’t it? Price and menu, right?

You are also going to want to see if the style and feel of the site matches the feel you want for this big night out. If it doesn’t match, you are gone. If you can’t find the prices and don’t know if your gang can afford it, you’re gone.

You have your choices narrowed down to 3 or 4 so you send them to the gang to help you decide. (peer advice)

Your friends are doing the 9 to 5 thing and when they hit a website that has the music auto-play chances are they bail immediately before the boss hears it. That restaurant just got eliminated.

Or your friends are looking them up on their mobile and the site doesn’t do mobile. Those get eliminated too.

The choices left standing are the ones that get serious consideration. So you look up the reviews.

If there is still a tie but one has an online reservation tool, which restaurant do you think is going to host your party?

If you look at this scenario, how different is if from the way brides look for wedding vendors?

They get referrals from their friends, family and social network. They research them online. They are looking for specific information. They share the ones up for serious consideration and then listen to the opinions of their peers. If possible, they take action online.

Are you giving your potential clients what they need on your website?

Do you have prices?

Does your music auto-play?

Do you have an equivalent of a menu?

Do you have links to your reviews?

Can they take action, like book an appointment online?

This is by no means a complete list; it is just the basics. There are other things that may be important to your specific business, like lead generators, coupons or online selling tools.

Think about  your own behavior when you are making buying decisions. Chances are good that they closely mirror those of your clients.

 

Is Your Website Ready for the Mobile Web? Website Design to Reach Today’s Bride

I had a client tell me recently that they believed that when brides sat down to really research on the web for their wedding that they did it on their main computer. Guess what, they aren’t. They are sitting on their couch or the bus stop or a park bench and doing their research on their tablet or mobile.

The thing you have to remember is that today’s bride is as comfortable with new technology as they are with the very air they breathe.

Here is something else, they might discover you first on Facebook or another social media, but when they decide to check you out, they head straight for your website.

Now that you know that, let’s get back to the original question:

Is your website ready for the mobile web?

Pull your site up on your smart phone or tablet. If it’s Flash, you won’t see it. Even if you have an html website, check those slide shows you spent so much time designing. Many times designers will use Flash plugins for the slide shows. That leave a gaping hole in your beautiful design.Your potential brides WANT to SEE your work, not a big black hole.

OK, so you did the right thing and switched to an html website and you checked all your slide shows and they work.

Now I want you to pay attention to how much of your site shows without scrolling. Most likely just the upper left corner.

What is in the upper left corner? For most of you, nothing! “Oh, but my logo looks so much better centered” Yep, it sure does on that giant monitor in your office, but that is rarely how potential brides will first see your website.

Here is a cool little site that you can use to see what they see, Studiopress Mobile Responsive Design.

Today there are a wealth of tools to make websites more mobile responsive. Everything from sites that are arranged to automatically rearrange the layout depending on the screen it is being viewed on to slide shows that automatically resized to be viewed with out scrolling.

Your other option is to have  yet another site built specifically for mobile devices. That option is already out of date, but it is a great play for web designers to get you to buy a second site. it is a lot like the one that talked you into having a Flash site and an html site for search with a splash page as your landing page.

Just remember, it isn’t enough for a website just to shrink to fit a smart phone, you need it to be usable at that size. You need all of the features on your site to be available on mobile devices. If it is important enough to be on your site it  is important enough to be usable on a mobile phone.

Don’t just listen to me. NET Magazine chose  Responsive Web Design as the #2 trend for 2012 Not just that, trend #7 is Mobile Gets Bigger.

If you are thinking it’s time to update your website, it probably is already past due. When you do it, do it right.

Here is one I finished recently for a client. This screen capture doesn’t really do it justice.

Mobile responsive web site Designed by Think Like A Bride

Go to Studiopress and type in http://www.bahamasdestinationweddingsgroup.com/ and play with it yourself. Pay special attention to the slide show as you scroll down. While you are there, you may want to check your own site. I’ll be here when you contact me.
This illustration from NET Magazine shows beautifully what I am talking about.

 

 responsive website design

Website for A Wedding Planner

I just finished a lovely website for a very lovely lady, Marva Munroe.

Marva plans weddings all over the Bahamas and wanted an update for her site that reflected recent changes in her growing business. She also wanted it to be mobile friendly.

Not only did we make it mobile friendly, we made it mobile responsive.

Huh? Mobile responsive means that the site rearranges itself depending on the screen size it is being viewed on. In short, it will align differently on an iPhone than on a desktop.

As always, click the image to view Marva’s new website.

website for a destination wedding planner

Brilliant Wedding Marketing

Marketing is tough. How do you decide where to start, where to invest and how to design your marketing material.

You are getting pitched daily by this one and that one telling you have to advertise with them.

“You have to do print!”

“I can deliver  (insert ridiculous number here) leads to you a month!”

“If you want to do well in this market you have to do this bridal show!”

Who do you believe?

The only real way to know what to do and who to believe is to build a marketing plan specifically for your business and stick to it. Don’t you wish someone would just tell you step by step how to market.

BINGO!

Brilliant Wedding Marketing is the step by step guide to building your marketing plan in a logical, layered way.

It tells you where to start and why. As you grow your business, add a layer.

Not only where and why, but how to perfectly execute each facet of your brilliant plan. From what to include in your website to  how to design an ad for print, here are the answers. What about Email? It’s covered! Outrageous marketing? You didn’t think I would leave that out did you?

It’s all here in one clear, logical road map to marketing your wedding business brilliantly!

Brilliant Wedding marketing ebook

What do you spend in a year on marketing your wedding business? Isn’t it worth $19.95 to make sure you get it right? You bet it is. One decent print add will run you at least $2400!  Isn’t it worth less than 20 bucks to get that right?

I know there are about a million books on marketing, but how many of them are written specifically for this wacky industry known as WEDDINGS? More than that, how many of them are written by someone you already know and trust?  One of the reasons you read THINK is for marketing advice in a clear and easy to understand style. No bullshit, no gobldygook; just straight talk from someone who has been there.

Brilliant Wedding Marketing boils it all down to a step by step plan to keep you on track with your marketing.

Brilliant Wedding Marketing ebook

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Southernmost Weddings of the Keys

When wedding planner and officiate Mary Beth came to TLAB she had nothing but a name and a url to market her new venture. Because she was in Key West there had to be some aspect of “beachy’ to her branding but something like that can so easily go over the top. Elegant was the other thing she wanted her marketing to express. I think we nailed it.

We started with a logo.

Logo design for Key West wedding planner

 

 

Added a landing page.

custom coming-soon page for new website for Key West Wedding Planner

And finally a website.

website for wedding planner

 

Does your branding or website need a new look? Give me shout.

Southernmost Weddings

When wedding planner and officiate Mary Beth came to TLAB she had nothing but a name and a url to market her new venture. Because she was in Key West there had to be some aspect of “beachy’ to her branding but something like that can so easily go over the top. Elegant was the other thing she wanted her marketing to express. I think we nailed it.

We started with a logo.

Logo design for Key West wedding planner

 

 

Added a landing page.

custom coming-soon page for new website for Key West Wedding Planner

And finally a website.

website for wedding planner

 

Does your branding or website need a new look? Give me shout.