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Keep It Simple, Stupid

Are you confusing your brides? Stop that!  Just keep it simple.

I have had a lot of contact lately with planners and decor people. Listening to them I have come to the sad conclusion that many of today’s brides, while highly educated have the imagination and vision of a turnip.

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We as creatives, listen to their dreams and yes, look at their Pinterest boards and then design for them what we hear. AND THEY CAN”T SEE IT!

What they really want is what is in the picture. Face it they have looked at thousands of them. I know it zaps your creative soul, but it really is so much simpler to just give them what is in the picture; no matter what we think of it.

Times have changed. Time was when they came to us for our vision and expertise, now they just want our technical skills. ~sigh

So here is a thought, take their money, put your creativity on the shelf and  implemented their plan. No, you won’t explode.

I have another outlet for your creativity>>marketing to build your business.

Face it, if you aren’t having to design everything, your staff should be trained well enough to copy from pictures. Turn more of it over to them and start doing something that will both feed your creative needs and grow your business.

Get involved in style shoots.

Feed your blog.

Create just to create.

Then photograph it and get it out there on Pinterest. Be consistent and relentless. Before long it will be your pictures that they are bringing and it won’t just be to you. All of a sudden it will be your designs that everyone is having to recreate. hehehe, sweet!

Here is something to think about. Have you noticed that the majority of cakes on Pinterest these days are tiny, maybe only 2 small tiers. Do you know why? Because they are done by cake designers just to be photographed and shown off. I will stake my reputation that the vast majority of those small, absolutely stunning cakes never leave the cake shop. The designer got to design, they are getting their style out there and somewhere there is some poor baker being asked to make those designs feed 120!

Just some food for thought

Has the Recession Split Gen Y?

I read an interesting article today about how the recession has effected the Millennial generation. Here is the point that got me thinking about tomorrow’s brides,

Based on our research it is clear that younger Millennials (age 18-26) have been hit significantly harder by the effects of the recession than older Millennials (27-35). Fully 64% of the older group admit that those coming of age now have it worse than they did. Thus, it is no surprise that younger Millennials are more considered consumers, 69% report trying to cut spending on what they don’t need.
Though all Millennials were affected in some way by the recession, younger Millennials, compared to older Millennials at the same life stage, have been more substantively…

With the average age of today’s bride 29 and rising it looks like we have a couple of more years before the younger (and least economically healthy) sub-group of Millenials start getting engaged. That bodes well for the continuing slow recovery of the wedding industry. Budgets are loosening a little and the occasional splurge is now being made.

How will tomorrow’s bride be different?

My question is, what happens in 2-3 years when we hit this new group of highly educated, under-employed couples that are already deeply in debt with student loans?

Tomorrow’s bride may have become so used to corner-cutting, deal-cutting and scrimping that she will expect their wedding to be that way too. Even though you may think today’s brides are only out to cut a deal, I have a funny feeling that this is a walk in the park compared to what’s to come.

That is, if they have a wedding at all.

With statistics like this, how many couples are even going to consider a big spend like a wedding.

Since 2010, the share of young Millennials ages 18 to 24 currently employed (54%) has been its lowest since the government began collecting data in 1948. And the gap in employment between the young and all working-age adults—roughly 15 percentage points—is the widest in recorded history.

Unless our economy gets moving and employment picks up, we may be in for some rocky years. To quote Stanley Tucci’s character in “The Devil Wears Prada”

Alright everyone. Gird your loins!

Nigel

What is Driving the Vintage Trend in Weddings?

At market you connect with people in all layers of the bridal business from designers to retailer to publishers. Last weekend I kept having a similar conversation over and over again.no more mason jars

When will the vintage trend in weddings be over?

In my mind, this trend should have already died and I said so, but it got me thinking more deeply about what is driving it.

  • First off, I think it is really in their hearts less about vintage than it is about ‘casual’. Vintage is just the name that got hung on it. Couples today are more concerned about having fun and seeing to the comfort of their guests than they are about being aspirational. Many see the more traditional hotel or banquet hall wedding reception as stuffy and constrained. In an effort to reduce stress they are abandoning that look for something they perceive as more casual and laid-back.
  • Second, I think the economy is driving it. Today’s couples are reaching out to alternative venues because they believe, correctly or not, that they are less expensive than a traditional wedding venue. These alternative venues are seen as unique and edgy. The venues, also effected by the economy, are reaching out to the bridal world as a new source of revenue.
  • Third, the vintage trend is seen as a Do-It-Yourselfer’s paradise. They can search flea markets and thrift shops for mismatched vases and mason jars and plop in a single daisy rather than rent beautiful silver vases and bowls from a rental company or a florist for over the top arrangements.
  • Perhaps the most important point, they are at heart copy-cats. Designing a wedding is something they have not done before. They search Pinterest and the wedding blogs not just for ideas but validation. If someone else has done it successfully they feel validated in their choices, even if it was done in a style shoot.
  • Which brings me to my last point. The blogs and style shoots, in an effort to “give the brides what they want” keep styling and showcasing vintage. It is stuck in a loop.

So how do we stop it?

As designers and stylists, you first have to understand what is driving it and then fill those needs. Today’s couples want highly personalized wedding with a casual, easy feel at a cost-effective price point. That doesn’t by default mean “Vintage”. It just means that is all they have been shown.

So put on your thinking caps, find some new inspiration, design your little hearts out and give them some alternatives. In your style shoots, don’t default to either vintage or over the top bling, find a middle ground. Understand their needs and desires and find new ways to execute them.

 

Optimizing Your Photos Just Got More Powerful

You know where I stand on how powerful the photos on your website are. If you somehow missed this, read this article on labeling your images for SEO.

In a nutshell…

Today’s bride search by images.

You have to label your images for the search engines to find them.

Well I have just discovered a new tool that will make those images even more powerful. It’s called ThingLink and allows you to embed links, music, videos and even more labels in your images.

Here is a slide show that explains it all

Here it is in use, Click on the icons.

Style shoot for local wedding magazineI

I can’t wait to play with this over on Wedding Dish.

Here are the details.

It’s free.

It’s a breeze to use.

It has analytics!

You can install it on your website as a WordPress plugin.

It connects with just about anything you could want from YouTube and Vimeo to Sptify and Sound Cloud, Facebook and Twitter.

The images on your website just got even more powerful.

Yes, it adds another step but oh it is sooooo worth it.

Is Your Primary Marketing Tool Ready for Today’s Bride?

I was reading an article by one of my heroes, Holly Buchanan a true pioneer in marketing to women. Holly posted her predictions for marketing to women for 2013.

Well wonder of wonders! check this quote

I’ve been saying this since 2005, but this trend shows no sign of slowing down. Women will continue to shop, do research and interact online.

Your website, email, social media and mobile strategy should be at the core of all of your marketing efforts. The experience she has with your brand online will be a key factor in how and whether she does business with you on or offline. She is expecting to get the information she needs, when she needs it. Too many brands still fall down on the job with their online customer experience.

I think we all pretty much knew that. Like Holly, I have been saying for years that you have to be marketing to brides online. Now the question becomes, HOW are they accessing the internet?

Here is some information from a Pew Research study:

Almost nine in 10 (87%) use internet or email on their smartphone, while two-thirds (68%) use it to go online on a typical day and one-quarter mostly use their smart phone to go online.

This doesn’t mean they have abandoned their desktop or laptop, they just aren’t chained to it. Thanks to smart phone, they research the internet whenever the thought strikes.

So, we know that the experience a bride has on your website is often key to whether she does business with you and we also know that she will be accessing your website on everything from a large screen monitor to a tiny smart phone in the palm of her hand.

How does your website measure up to this vast potential?

You will also notice from the Buchanan quote, that she is expecting to get the information she need when she needs it. What’s more, she want to be able to find the same content no matter where she looks in a way that is easy to use. The best solution we have today is to build a mobile-responsive website rather than have a variety of sites (Flash, HTML, mobile)responsive website design

Let’s look at one more article. This one is from Josh Byers, writing for one of my favorite sites, copyblogger.com. In it Josh discusses why you should have one website that performs well on any device, from desktop to smart phone.

Mobile users will do anything & everything that desktop users will do provided it’s presented in a usable way. Assuming people on mobile “won’t do that” is a losing proposition

If you’re not designing and developing your entire site with mobile users in mind, it doesn’t really matter if you employ a responsive design, or have a separate mobile site.

Data consistently show that mobile devices, mobile usage, and mobile purchases continue to rise at an enormous rate. This data also suggests that this trend will not slow down in the future, but only pick up speed.

To be successful on the web you must begin your process with a philosophy that puts mobile first.

Mobile responsive design is then the natural outflow of this process.

Simple question~

Is your primary marketing tool ready for today’s bride?

If it isn’t, drop me a line and I can fix it!

Still think mobile responsive isn’t that important? The New York Times doesn’t!

 

Do You Know Where Your Website Traffic Is Coming From?

I’m sure you are checking the stats on your website, but are you paying special attention to where your website traffic is coming from?  Everybody check to see if there traffic is up and how many visitors hit a particular article. I pay even closer attention on where my traffic is coming from and capitalize on that.

Hello, my name is Christine and I am a stats addict.

Social media is one of the top traffic drivers today, right behind Google(if you are doing it right). Because of that,I have people ask me all the time if they should post on Facebook, or is Pinterest more important; but wait, what about Twitter and should I be on Linkedin. I hate to break it to you, but there is no hard and fast rule.

You all know that I run 2 very different websites under the Think masthead. Where the traffic comes from is very different for each.

For Think, Linked in drives a ton of traffic, so does StumbleUpon. On theDish, it’s Pinterest and Google image search.

This isn’t a guess, it is what the stats tell me. So what to you think I do with this information? Why I exploit it to the nth degree!

As soon as I publish a post on Think, I use the socialize buttons on the post to send it to my groups on Linkedin and to StubleUpon because I know they are already interested in what I have to say. I have Linkedin set to email me every time there is a like or a comment on one of the discussions I have started. I respond as close to immediately as possible. Yes, I also have the app on my phone. Oh sure I put it on my Facebook fan page and if it has an image that goes to my marketing board on Pinterest.

Over on the Dish, it’s Google image and Pinterest. To optimize the Dish I pay special attention to labeling my images. Yes it takes time but it really pays off. I have the Pin it button enabled to make it easy for everyone to share. Not only others, but I use it myself as soon as the post goes live.

I am sure there are some of you thinking that if Linkedin works so well on Think, why not use it for the Dish. The answer is that they have 2 different targets and I pay attention to my stats. It all ties in with yesterday’s post where I said to forget about your weaknesses and capitalize on your strengths.

Why should I beat my head against the wall trying to get Think noticed more on Pinterest when I can really soar on Linked in?

Where is your traffic coming from and are you exploiting that to it’s maximum potential?

Do a little testing and see which social media network is best for you.

 

 

Branding. A New Approach.

Because of some client interactions of late, I have been thinking a lot about branding. Once again, my favorite magazine , Fast Company is right on time with just the inspiration I needed in an article by Jake Zucker, Proof in the Eating.

Zucker followed the process when a cutting edge consultancy firm took on a not terribly cool small business. There where some great branding take-aways. (Yes the small business is a mall restaurant chain that has absolutely nothing to do with weddings but what have I told you about looking outside the box for branding and marketing ideas. Besides, they have the same demographic you do!)  ;-)

One of the things the consultants suggested was -

know your client first then work backwards

So simple but so brilliant. How many of you started your branding from who you were and what you wanted to project? Who cared what the target market wanted!

When the big kids set out to brand a company, the first thing they do is build complete profiles of the subsets of people in the demographic for the client. They give them names and faces and get to “know ” them. Then they start to build the profile of the business to appeal to those subsets unique problems, desires and needs.  They take into account the way they are attracted to the companies goods and services and the way in which they want them delivered.

How smart is it to have your branding appeal to 50 something crafters when your demographic is 28 year career women that live in a large city? Or building a sleek, clean industrial looking brand when your brides are more likely to follow NASCAR that Fashion Week?

You have to think deeply about who your real client is.

Another point they made…

Millenials value brevity

I see way to many websites that have page after page of the written word. Man, keep it short and sweet, use bullet points and illustrations where ever possible.

Your website and marketing material is to attract there attention. In our industry, you are going to have to have some one on one conversation to seal the deal. That is when you can get into all the details and nuances of what you do.

One more tidbit…

You can’t pick your signature item, your clients will pick it

I know you want to do just the full package, or only want to do fondant cakes, or only plated dinners instead of buffets; but really people, your clients are going to tell you what your signature is. It’s the package that keeps getting booked, or the cake with the ruffles that you are sick of, or they love you as a day-of planner because you have the reputation of saving the day.

As children, we were taught to work on our weaknesses. Bullshit! Why, so you can bring them up to a level of competence? I say you throw out (or farm off) those things that you aren’t excelling in and focus all your attention on the things you are already good at and become great!

In short, listen to your clients about what you do best, your signature item if you will, and become even better. Build your business around it.

One more thing, this one from me.

Our target is constantly evolving, your brand and your business has to evolve with them.

 

Bridal Shows: Don’t Phone It In

I know you’re busy. I know that your creative juices are drained by your clients. I get it but for crying out loud;

if you are going to invest your time and treasure in a Bridal Show …

Don’t Phone it in!

Sunday I went to a crazy, amazing bridal show. Suffice it to say, it was the first time I have ever been compelled to take a crowd shot.

So many of the vendors knocked it out of the park, but today’s column is about the ones that didn’t.

If you are going to present in the tabletop displays then do it! If you can’t/won’t put in the effort, you are smarter to just withdraw.

Yes it is a beautiful centerpiece, but this was a tabletop display showcase. Yes, working with that background couldn’t have been easy, but if you did a walk through you knew what you were in for. You paid to be here-BRING IT!

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This one hit the mark. Same craptastic backdrop but they went the extra mile. Not only was the tabletop pretty, it was on trend, took the carpet into account  and matched the company’s look and style.

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On to the booths.

This one kind of breaks my heart because I know this vendor and I know that she is capable of so very much more. Everyone has a bad day but when you know that your biggest competitor is going to be in the same show and they always knock it out of the park, you just can’t afford to drop the ball like this. As I always do, I made a point before I took this shot to ask if the booth was finished.

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Just for reference; the competition.

bridal show booth that gets it right

 

A couple of other notes on bridal shows:

Do a walk through.

If you can negotiate for prime placement, do it.

Don’t blow your investment by phoning it in.

More really is better.

What TODAY’S Bride Wants

I had a long conversation yesterday with one of the smartest, most savvy planners I know. She doesn’t chase celebrities. She isn’t obsessed with landing only the luxury market. She is obsessed with only one thing, growing her business. She is a firm believer in knowing your market and giving them what they want in the way they want it. She keeps her finger on the pulse of today’s bride. Consequently she and her team do several hundred weddings a year.

Our conversation revolved around how today’s brides and grooms are different and how savvy wedding professionals are changing to meet the new demands.

She was telling me about a conversation with a Tuxedo shop. Rumors are rampant that the men’s formal wear industry has hit on hard times because grooms aren’t renting tuxes anymore. Here is what the tuxedo shop owner had to say to that…

No, men are not wearing tuxedos for their wedding BUT that doesn’t mean they aren’t renting garments from tuxedo shops. They don’t want tuxedos, but they are willing to spend a premium price to rent exquisite suits. They don’t want to wear their granddad’s monkey suit, they want to look like Harvey in Suits or Matt Bomer’s character in White Collar. They love fashion but it has to be today’s fashion! What’s more, they are more than willing to pay a premium price to get it. Our shop owner said it has taken him 4 years to find the right mix of vendors to fine tune his offerings. Now he gets calls from all over the country to rent his offerings. #winning’

  

 

Then we got on the topic of the coming upheaval in wedding invitations. Gulp. This goes directly to the generational differences of today’s brides and their peers group.

As a planner that manages several hundred weddings a year, often managing even the RSVP list for her brides, she is the one that has to make those calls when the RSVPs don’t come in.

Do you know what she is hearing these days? “Invitation? I didn’t get an invitation.”

Do you know why? It isn’t that they didn’t get an invitation, it is because the don’t check their mailbox, sometimes for a month at a time!!

This even goes so far as one guest responding with “I didn’t see an evite.” The poor child didn’t even understand the question, something important coming by snail mail wasn’t even in her vocabulary.

I have news for you, the day is coming when they won’t even catch it in email. I see text message save the dates on the horizon.

“Hey, check your mailbox. I’m sending you an invitation!”

Are you selling what today’s bride wants or are you still trying to sell what you want?

For all of you that are crying in your coffee right now bemoaning the end of an era, I feel sorry for you. I have said for as long as I can remember, our target market is ever changing and ever evolving; you either keep up or suffer the fate of the dinosaurs before you.

In short,

Catch the wave~

                 or drown.

Your Best Referrals Come From Other Vendors and I’m Going to Show You How to Get More

You have heard me say it when I talk about Bridal Shows and in articles like The Art of the Suck Up. One bride may send you one or two referrals, but a fellow wedding professional can send you dozens and even more over the course of your relationship. Isn’t it time you made it a bit easier for them to refer you?

I met with my friend Scoobie Schneider over lunch last week to talk about his new company, ShareWed.com. In a word, it’s brilliant!

Just imagine how much more often you would refer your fellow vendors (and they would refer you) if it was just a mouse click away? Bunches, I’m betting.

This system is so seamless and so intuitive that you will not believe it. Working with partner Glenn Cooper on the tech (FYI, Glenn works as a consultant for companies like Cisco Systems and Microsoft ) they solved the puzzle.

Here is how it works:

You meet with a bride and as a natural part of the conversation you ask her what other services she needs.

You plug her name, date and email into the system and all the vendors in your network pop up, conveniently sorted into categories.

You scroll down the list and click on your favorite vendors that fit her needs and the system sends her an email with your hand curated recommendations.

What could be easier?

Oh, ya, if that vendor is already booked for that date, they are marked out in red. Brilliant!

Not only that, but the vendors you referred get a heads up by email or text. Now they know you referred them. Good stuff.

Oh heck, why don’t I just let them explain it.

 But Christine, there aren’t any other vendors in my market yet :-(

That is a good thing! Huh? Because they have an affiliate program. For every vendor that signs up for ShareWed using your affiliate link, you get $20. Sign up your 6 favorite wedding professionals and you have recovered your costs for the first year.  

That is why I am posting this. I want my savvy readers to be the first in their markets. I want them to be the ones that benefit the most. There are coins to be made here; not just from the referrals but from the affiliate program too! I want you to be the ones to make that money. You deserve it.

Now, not only are you building an air tight, seamless referral network of your favorite wedding professionals, but you are basically doing it for free. What’s not to love.

Compare that to what you pay for listing type sites like the Knot or Wedding Wire where you hope brides see your ad.

Go on, click the link. You know you want to.  While you are at it, share it on Facebook and Twitter.

 

ShareWed